Women’s Roles & Sexuality in Early
Modern Europe
The roles of women have transformed enormously over
time. As women, our freedoms, our independence, our ability to make choices for
ourselves were things that were not always prevalent within society. We have
lived within a man’s world for centuries and have come a very long way. My blog is going to explore the women’s roles
and sexuality within Early Modern Europe.
In Early Modern Europe women’s sexual and marital
status mattered most, as a woman’s life was for the purpose of getting married
and reproducing. Acceptable women were; virgins, wives, or widowers (Ruth Mazo, 2003, pg. 155). A woman
could marry amongst her social and economical class solely; however, was able
to choose her spouse providing he met these criteria. This in itself was a
big step forward from Medieval Europe where arranged marriages were normative,
and wives just hoped whoever they married would not be physically or
emotionally abusive towards them (M.E Wiesner, 2000, pg. 52). The
abuse some women experienced was something lived with for a very
long time, or their whole marriage. Divorce was very frowned upon, and
virtually impossible unless your spouse had died (M.E Wiesner, 2000, pg. 52).
A man’s masculinity and sexuality was celebrated;
painted, songs were written about it, pornographic literature exploring this.
However, a woman showing too much independence or sexuality could actually
leave her punished or even killed (M.E Wisner, 2000, pg. 59). Women were viewed as sex objects, or
property (Ruth Mazo, 2003, pg. 154). As previously stated, the purpose of women was to marry and
reproduce. Men often had wives for
reproduction purposes but also saw prostitutes when they wanted to have more “dirty”
sex. Wives did not perform in the way
prostitutes did as it was made illegal as per religion, to perform sexual
intercourse any other way but missionary. Men would not be so "unclean" as to have rough or dirty sex with their wives- that was left for the prostitute and barring children was the only reason they have sex with their wives ( M.E Wiesner pg. 58).
In this era contraceptives did not exist and for
many women unmarried pregnancy was terrible. If a single woman became pregnant she
would lose her job, and could even be charged if the individual she conceived
with was married or if it was her employer she got farmiliar with-even if it was rape (M.E Wiesner, 2000, pg. 63). This left unmarried pregnant women in an
economic down spiral. Some women would move residents to live with friends or
family however, it was illegal to hide pregnant women (M.E Wiesner, 2000, pg. 63). Others women may have decided
to hide the birth. Women would give birth in outhouses, cow stalls, hay mounds,
hoping they wouldn’t be noticed by the public and take their babies to a new foundling homes established in some major cities in the 16th century. Some women would even
kill their child (M.E Wiesner, 2000, pg. 63).
The term “quickening”, meaning the
waking of the child’s soul occurred when mothers would first feel their child
moving inside them (M.E Wiesner, 2000, pg. 62). It is not until then that the pregnancy was official. There
was medication a woman could take prior to the quickening without it being
considered abortion (M.E Wiesner, 2000, pg. 62). Consequences for attempting of performing an abortion
after the child’s soul had awoken resulted in harsh penalties. Aborting a child
was made a capital offence in 1532, where women would be drowned and men would be decapitated if found
guilty of this (M.E Wiesner, 2000, pg. 62) .
In 1624 a stature passed in England making it a
requirement that all unmarried women who find themselves pregnant were
obligated to sign a declaration of their pregnancy, and if the infant died prior
to the baptismal they would serve the death penalty. In Early Modern Europe more women were
executed for infanticide than any other crime other than witchcraft (M.E Wiesner, 2000, pg. 63) .
In today’s world, Canadian women have a lot more
freedoms, independence and are able to make their own decisions. Marriage
outside of our social class is acceptable, women go to school, and have the
ability to control birth through various methods of contraception. There is
still stigma attached to abortion today and it is still viewed as a sin through
religious perspective however, women are not serving the death penalty if they
chose to abort. Women have come a long way.
Cassandra
References:
Karras, R. (2003). Women’s Labours: Reproduction and
Sex Work in medieval Europe. Journal of Women’s History, 15 (4), p.153-158.
M.E Wiesner. (2000). Women and Gender in Early
Modern Europe, p.52-63.
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ReplyDeleteCassandra,
ReplyDeleteMy second blog post was on abortion so I particularly enjoyed how you ended your post. I think that women have come along way and I think that it is hard to think about how it was before we got to where we are now. I think this especially because we have so many limits still.
Living in the past under those circumstances must have been torturous.
Thinking of something like marriage and how much has come from that area in the life of a woman alone is huge.
"Now you can choose who you would like to spend the rest of your life with" seems silly to say and I dont mean to be offensive because some cultures still believe in arranged marriages. When your husband, first of all, is someone who was chosen for you and, second of all, allowed to sleep with hooker is such an important progressions based on the value of a woman in society.
As graphic as your post had to be I think it was absolutely necessary. It makes me think of the stereotype of women being "whores" when they do things that men do all of the time. A man isn't ridiculed for any of it and I think it can all stem back to unfortunate facts of our past like this post.
Geraldine
I agree with Geraldine, we certainly have come a long way. And now we even have our own pens! :) In the words of Ellen, "We've come a long way baby." Haha.
ReplyDeleteAnyways, I think that the idea of intercourse purely for the purpose of reproduction is perfectly okay if that is what you believe. However, this whole prostitute on the side thing is just awful. If men would not be so "unclean" as to have "dirty" sex with their wives, it's not really all that "clean" to go have sex with a dirty prostitute. The thought of women as sexual objects is sad, and I would never want to have to hide my pregnancy. Good post Cass.
-Helen
As a single mother of two, student and full-time worker, this post got me thinking about the views people have about women. I personally wouldnt want to accept being a homemaker for life. I think its important women (single parents) or not should work even if its part time. Also, I strongly agree we have come a long way. Some women nowadays carry out more responsibilies then most men do. This I believe is because of all the changes that came about how women were viewed over time.
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