At this time, the average life-span
for an Aboriginal person living in Canada has proven to be much lower than the
rest of the population and the birthrate appears to be much higher. This will
have tremendous consequences for society unless the appropriate steps are taken
to make sure that the problems that have been created because of the many years
of oppression are addressed and dealt with appropriately.
Intimate violence is defined as ‘any
and all forms of maltreatment committed in relationships of intimacy, trust and
dependence’ (Platform for action 1995)
There is a story that I came
across, that told of a woman that had been subject to intimate violence since
very early childhood. Her name cannot be revealed for safety reasons. She is 33
years old and was born and raised on a prairie farm. She does not have a high school
diploma and her annual income is under $10,000. During her childhood, she
witnessed the abuse of other women, including her mother. In the course of her
life, she has lived with two abusive partners. One of which she became involved
with in her mid-teens. She was the victim of abuse from her family members and
neighbours. Most emotional and physical abuse came from her mother and sexual
abuse came from a male relative. For some of the time, she did not know that
what was being done was wrong and even thought she deserved it. When she got
older she was embarrassed by her partner and was often beaten by him, sometimes
in front of her children.
These acts of violence brought
her into the contact of the police and the criminal justice system. The man
pleaded guilty and was given and short sentence. This was enough time for her
to safely begin her new life, but in no way makes up for all the pain that he
caused her.
-Helen
References
McGillivray, A., & Comaskey, B. (1999) Black Eyes All of the Time: Intimate Violence, Aboriginal Women and the Justice System
What a great topis you have brought up. Violence against women is unfortunately an issue that not only happens in Canada, but around the globe. It can happen to any women, of any ethnicity and disastrously abuse is a cycle. Violence can become a normative thing if you've always grown up with it around. We get disensitized, and it's hard to end the cycle. I am so grateful for the violence against women services Ontario has to offer. Let's just hope that funding doesn't get cut!
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